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Entry for November 20, 2007 In Memory of Tonya
The RIPS lost one of our members to a tragic car accident and we are all still numb over this tragedy here. Besides that she was one of my daughters best friends and they worked side by side at a local animal clinic here. My daughter is just soooooo lost and besides herself for this loss.
I believe in fate, and also believe that we all have the choice which way our destiny can go. Regardless of what choices we do take in life I hope that we all make the best choices for all concerned ........ family, and friends.
So sad when young peoples lives are cut short, and then I start to question God. I think we have all been there more times then we all have ever wanted to be. I know 17 yrs. ago when he took my mom I really had a hard time dealing with the fact that he could take her from US here. Then with my dad also three years ago ........... I found myself questioning my faith in God and all of the WHY'S or the WHAT IF'S .........that go unanswered.
They say or so I have always been taught that God doesn't give you anymore then he feels that you can take...... I do have a problem with that statement though, really I do. Life is so precious and also so short the time we do really have on this plane.... but then also so un-fair in so many ways.
I know that from birth we are all dying everyday a little closer to. I know by dealing with and helping others communicate with their departed loved ones is a tough job but one that is also so rewarding to the people that we have been able to help along the way here.
I composed the HARDEST website page that I have ever had to do....... but in a sense knew that I also had to do this for Tonya......... what a sweetheart this girl really was too. She touched the lives of everyone that she came in contact with be it her friends, us or just any client that she helped with their animals at the clinic in which she and my daughter worked at together.
In Memory of
May she rest in peace, until we meet again ............ Kay
I believe in fate, and also believe that we all have the choice which way our destiny can go. Regardless of what choices we do take in life I hope that we all make the best choices for all concerned ........ family, and friends.
So sad when young peoples lives are cut short, and then I start to question God. I think we have all been there more times then we all have ever wanted to be. I know 17 yrs. ago when he took my mom I really had a hard time dealing with the fact that he could take her from US here. Then with my dad also three years ago ........... I found myself questioning my faith in God and all of the WHY'S or the WHAT IF'S .........that go unanswered.
They say or so I have always been taught that God doesn't give you anymore then he feels that you can take...... I do have a problem with that statement though, really I do. Life is so precious and also so short the time we do really have on this plane.... but then also so un-fair in so many ways.
I know that from birth we are all dying everyday a little closer to. I know by dealing with and helping others communicate with their departed loved ones is a tough job but one that is also so rewarding to the people that we have been able to help along the way here.
I composed the HARDEST website page that I have ever had to do....... but in a sense knew that I also had to do this for Tonya......... what a sweetheart this girl really was too. She touched the lives of everyone that she came in contact with be it her friends, us or just any client that she helped with their animals at the clinic in which she and my daughter worked at together.
In Memory of
May she rest in peace, until we meet again ............ Kay
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(9 total) Post a Commentsorry to hear................hugssssssssss
Wednesday November 21, 2007 - 07:45am (CET) Remove Comment
In the storm
Stands the white rose
tumultuous waves
of destruction abound her
Yet tall is the white rose
strong in the face
Of the sensed doom around her
And she does not bow down
Pure is the white rose
In the compost earth
growing eternal strength
in the nights that so hurt
I see not the white rose
She is so far away
But I long to protect her
But only the words can I say
So I send her my words
And my poets heart
To help her when
there is hope to see her through
Be Strong little flower
Your heart will guide true
And as long as you want
I will always talk to you
Wednesday November 21, 2007 - 07:50am (CET) Remove Comment
sorry for your daughter
Wednesday November 21, 2007 - 10:02pm (EST) Remove Comment
Awwwwww..im sorry sweety..xoxo
Wednesday November 21, 2007 - 12:06pm (EST) Remove Comment
I am so sorry Kay! My prayers go out to all of you who have her in their heart. I know you are in hers also. Please know that whatever the reason may be, she is still with you in Spirit with everything you do. She is by your side and has a place now with the Angels who surround you and yours. Although words cannot express your loss, the truth is in the spirit. Always know that I am here for you whenever you need me dear friend and sister in Spirit. (Bow in prayer) with love.
Wednesday November 21, 2007 - 01:45pm (EST) Remove Comment
I'm sure this was the most difficult blog to write hun. My thoughts are with you, your daughter and everyone who knew her. If you need to chat you know where I am.
Hugs Judi xxx
Wednesday November 21, 2007 - 10:26pm (GMT) Remove Comment
My Condolences to you and your family for such a loss. Know that they are safe in the arms of the Lord. Please know we are here for you Kay... (((((((hugs))))))
Wednesday November 21, 2007 - 07:50pm (EST) Remove Comment
Im so sorry to hear of the loss of your dear friend...I can only say I hope all of the fond memories she left you all with will help heal your broken hearts...may you all heal quickly. ((Hugs))
Sunday November 25, 2007 - 03:13am (PST) Remove Comment
it is never easy to loose a loved one. we know in our heads sometimes that it is for the best, but, it is hard for our hearts to know. in a way, we are selfish, for they are having the time of their lives out there! it is us, our loss that keeps us messed up. they know no encumberments, no deceit, no pain. they are free. we are not. i am so sorry for those left here without tonya's light. i am happy for tonya though. god/dess bless all. with love, marie
Friday December 7, 2007 - 02:39pm (EST) Remove Comment